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Colonel Prashant Rawal

We All Fail You Will Too So What

Updated: Jul 23, 2023


You fail, but you realize that more people fail not because they lack talent or skill, but because they simply give up. Failure is just a feeling until it becomes a real result. This feeling is amplified when you are worried about the criticism you face. People are willing to criticize what didn’t work despite your best efforts. But whether we like it or not, failure is a necessary step to achieving your dreams as you move forward in life.


When we accept that failure is a feeling, adjusting our thoughts allows us to think and develop new plans and move forward. It is important to remember two words: determination and resistance. Do what must be done and resist what must not be done. A review of the processes involved is essential to test new approaches and solutions. There is always a way out but repeating the same actions over and over hoping to succeed this time is unlikely to get you any closer to your goal.


However, I understand that the fear of failure is a common and natural concern for many people. It's important to recognize that failure is a normal part of life, and everyone experiences it at some point. The key is not to let the fear of failure hold you back from trying or taking risks.


Failure can be a valuable teacher, providing opportunities for growth, learning, and self-improvement. Many successful individuals have faced failures along their journeys, but what sets them apart is their ability to learn from those experiences and keep moving forward.


Instead of being paralyzed by the fear of failure, try to adopt a growth mindset. Embrace challenges, view mistakes as learning opportunities, and use failures as stepping stones towards success. Remember that it's okay to stumble along the way; what matters is how you pick yourself up and continue striving for your goals.


Also, don't be too hard on yourself. Everyone has their own unique journey, and comparing yourself to others' successes or failures isn't always helpful. Focus on your own progress and celebrate the small victories along the way.


If you find yourself struggling with the fear of failure, consider talking to friends, family, or a professional counselor who can provide support and perspective. Remember, you have the strength and resilience to overcome obstacles and achieve your dreams. So, don't let the fear of failure hold you back; embrace it as a natural part of life's journey.


We must accept failure willingly and explore why it happened. Is there a lesson to be learned here? Look at your failed efforts and decide what needs to be done now. Continue your efforts and take corrective action using the experience gained as a guide. Refinement of the process brings you one step closer to your goal.


You may fail, but failure is not the end, it is the beginning. If you succeed, don’t forget the process. We are what we keep doing. We are creatures of our habits. Thus, the process is no longer an action, but a way to achieve success. 







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