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Colonel Prashant Rawal

The married life strategy: Enter marital alignment

What’s the married life strategy? Having a strategy is no unique concept. Having a strategy in place is the foundation for transformational change. It acts as the guiding beacon and provides a common goal for you as a married couple.

Married life strategies should receive major attention, but even the most robust strategy is useless unless supported by appropriate skills for execution. Any strategy has little value until implemented. Enter marital alignment.

Marital alignment

Marital alignment happens by design and is often the missing ingredient for a unsuccessful married life. Marital alignment is the prudent arrangement of the various internal and external elements of two individuals and their families—from their values to their life strategies —to best support the achievement of a happy married life.

By analyzing and aligning various elements of your married life, you can best ensure your long-term success. Highly satisfied married couples are often the most aligned, engaged, prepared, and change-ready.

Before you explore ways to achieve this, first, consider your family architecture and assess whether your model meets your needs. A faulty model will not allow you to succeed. Consider the family ethos and values and how they align with your married life.

Alignment or realignment of a Married Life

Alignment or realignment of a married life is sometimes necessary, especially that have experienced rapid deterioration. Incompatible couples are often at risk for their relationship growing in an illogical and haphazard way. Frequent arguments and conflicts—you simply know you need somehow to handle or get out.

Alignment allows the couple to look at their relationship and concerned people afresh, in order to figure out what is out dated. A couple might know that love and concern are dead but do their family members/advisors possess the knowledge and skills for other options?

It’s up to the couple to find the solutions to their woes. Both the partners should play their roles intelligently without getting unnecessarily influenced by external factors. If you do not take the time and effort to align your vision, core values, and passions with your partner, it will slowly start to take a toll on your relationship to the point of break-up. It’s time to work out a new married life strategy.

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