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Colonel Prashant Rawal

Little-Known Reasons Why Some People Lose Interest in a Relationship

Updated: Jul 22, 2023


When you develop quality relationships, not only do you feel better and your friends feel better, but you also increase joy, love, and peace around you. By the way, if you’re concerned that your partner is not fully committed to the relationship, you need to find out why. Here are some reasons little known why someone is doing so. Once you find them, you will have a better understanding and can make your relationship flourish.

Personality Issues: When someone suffers from personality issues such as poor body image, low self-esteem, or low self-confidence he may not contribute 100 percent in a relationship. When people suffer from an inferiority complex they are always looking for ways to make themselves feel better. Showing interest in a new relationship in which they expect some appreciation gives them relief.

Personality Traits: Some people with certain traits have preferred relationships over others. For example, studies show that people who are less agreeable, less altruistic, or less diligent than most people are, more likely to be in a particular relationship. Simple acts of kindness and showing compassion shown can reveal what kind of person your partner is.

Incompatible Partners: Sometimes there are significant differences between partners in aspects such as social status and popularity amongst friends. These differences can weaken the relationship over time.

Examine the personalities

One of the best things to do when trying to analyze whether or not someone is falling short of your expectations is to examine their personality as well as yours. And if you know both your personality and your partner’s personality type, learn how much these two personality types jell together. For example, dominant people usually get along best with people who support them. Dominant types are happy because they are the prime mover in the relationship, while supportive types are happy because they get support from their partners. This is a win-win combination.

The tools available

One of the best tools for determining your and your partner’s personality is the DiSC Profile System. DiSC is an acronym that stands for the four main personality profiles described in the DiSC model: (D)ominance, (i)nfluence, (S)teadiness and (C)onscientiousness. This free online tool looks at aspects of personality and does not measure intelligence or ability but how you respond to challenges and how well you work with others. He divides people’s personality types into four main quadrants. It then shows which quadrants fit well with other quadrants and identifies those that don’t fit together. Of course, personality profiling isn’t the only factor in determining how well any two personalities complement each other in a relationship but it’s a good starting point for uncovering the psychology that baffles some people






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