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Colonel Prashant Rawal

Fear of Judgment: Reason We Might Hold Back From Sharing

Updated: Jul 22, 2023


The fear of judgment is indeed one of the main reasons why we often hold back from sharing our thoughts, feelings, or ideas. This fear is a result of the concern that others may disapprove, criticize, or reject what they have to say. It can lead to feelings of embarrassment, shame, or social snubbing.

The fear of judgment arises when we believe that being straightforward might result in being taken as different or going against societal norms.

When we question our own worth it can lead to self-doubt. Now we are unsure whether our ideas or opinions are valuable or that they lack the meaning you intended. This self-doubt can hold you back from sharing your thoughts openly.

If someone has faced humiliation in the past for expressing themselves honestly, they may develop a fear of being judged again, which can hinder their willingness to share openly.

I consider a desire for perfection or the fear of making mistakes to be a significant barrier to sharing. People may fear being judged for their imperfections or for not meeting their own or others’ high standards. This fear of falling short can prevent them from opening up and sharing their genuine thoughts or ideas. The fear of making mistakes can impede progress in any field.

In today’s interconnected world, social media platforms often force you to pitch against an idealized version of people’s lives. The self-comparison and fear of not measuring up to the ideals develop an inferiority complex. The fear of being judged based on this comparison can discourage many from sharing their own thoughts or experiences.

The desire for perfection or the fear of making mistakes is usually an important barrier to sharing for a variety of reasons. Most people fear that sharing their thoughts, ideas, or work will reveal flaws and cause criticism or rejection. People can be hesitant to cooperate if they worry too much about mistakes. Sharing ideas requires vulnerability, and fear of making mistakes can prevent you from actively participating in group discussions or projects.

However, the fear of making mistakes can hinder personal growth and development. This paralysis may prevent you from fully sharing your work or ideas. Perfectionism often creates a flawless appearance, forcing people to present images that do not reflect who they really are. This lack of authenticity can hinder true relationships and prevent meaningful exchanges.

Fear of making mistakes can hinder progress and innovation. Fear of making mistakes can make us defensive, withdrawn, or overly critical.

What we need to do is to change our mindset. Building self-confidence by practising self-acceptance and surrounding oneself with people who encourage open expression can help lessen this fear. Everyone has unique perspectives. By avoiding sharing, individuals may miss out on receiving feedback and discovering alternative perspectives. Constructive criticism can help in building a growth mindset that contributes to overcoming the fear of judgment.


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